Design Your Life – The Law of Attraction Way

By Priya Deelchand

The Law of Attraction states that we attract into our life whatever we give our attention, energy and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. Most of us are not conscious that the Law of Attraction is working all the time and we tend to attract things unknowingly and as such we live our lives by default. Once we become aware of the existence of this wonderful universal law and we come to understand it and start learning how to successfully apply it into our lives, we will be able to make the Law of Attraction work for us. We will then become deliberate creators of our lives and start living our lives by design.

The Law of Attraction is about vibrations. We are all made of energy and we continuously release vibrations. We vibrate through our thoughts, emotions and feelings. Our vibrations can be either positive or negative. When we are feeling happy, joyful, peaceful, successful, prosperous, abundant, enthusiastic, love, compassion, we are emitting positive vibrations. We emit negative vibrations when we are feeling fearful, doubtful, anxious, angry, worried, sad, frustrated, jealous, depressed, stressed or confused.

We can all feel the vibration that a person is emitting. When someone is happy and vibrating positively, we often say that the person has good vibes. The Law of Attraction is always responding to what we are vibrating. When we emit positive vibrations, we will tend to attract more positive experiences, people, situations and circumstances in our lives. On the other hand, when we give out negative vibes, we tend to attract more negative experiences in our lives. According to the Law of Attraction, we are all magnets and we attract what we vibrate. Therefore, if we want to attract more positive things in our lives, we should always vibrate positively.

Most of the time, we are not aware of what vibration we are emitting in the universe. We simply react to daily situations and to events that are happening around us and our vibrations tend to vary between positive and negative all the time. When we react unconsciously to these events which can be either good or bad, we tend to attract things by default in our lives. Once we become aware of how the Law of Attraction works and how important it is to vibrate positively, we can stop attracting things by default and start living our lives by design. We thus become deliberate creators of our lives. This process of deliberate creation or deliberate attraction involves three steps.

Step 1: Identify clearly what we really desire

If we want to live our lives by design, it is very important for us to become very clear about what we really want. Clarity is the first step for deliberate attraction. One of the best ways to become clear about what we do want is to examine very briefly what we do not want. We then replace the unwanted vibration with a wanted vibration. It is very important for us to focus only on what we really want rather than on what we do not want. Once we become clear about what we truly desire, we should use only positive words to state what we want. We should never use negative words to express what we want and words like no, not and do not should be completely eliminated. For example, if we want to be at the office on time and we are stuck in a traffic jam, we should not say “I do not want to be late” but instead we should say “I want to be at work on time”.

Step 2: Raise our vibration

Once we are clear about what we truly desire, we must raise our vibration to attract what we want. Remember, we do not get what we want but we get what we vibrate. We must therefore become a “vibrational match” to what we want in order to attract what we truly desire. How do we raise our vibration? We must make as if we already possess the thing that we truly desire and start experiencing how we would be feeling if we were already in possession of that thing. For example, how would we feel if we already had the perfect partner or the ideal job or the dream car or the right business that we want to attract? We must identify what makes us feel good and do more of it and keep our vibration always positive. We can use affirmations or use phrases like “I am in the process of attracting my ideal partner or my ideal financial situation” to raise our vibration to attract what we desire. We can also visualize what we want and make as if we already have it. We must however bear in mind that whether we are using affirmations or visualization, the most important thing is that we must feel what it would be like to already possess what we desire.

Step 3: Allow it.

Allowing is the third and most important step in the process of deliberate attraction. Allowing is the absence of doubt and fear. The speed at which the Law of Attraction manifests our desire is in direct proportion to how much we allow. If we have a strong desire and strong doubt, our desire will never be manifested. If, on the other hand, we have a strong desire and no doubt or fear at all, our desire will be materialized very rapidly. The most common cause of doubt is our own limiting beliefs. These limiting beliefs act as blocks and prevent us from getting what we want. Once we remove our doubts and replace them by certainty and once we substitute our fears by confidence, what we truly desire will come to us.

Once we start applying all these three steps to deliberately attract what we want, our lives will change for the better and we will become happier and more fulfilled individuals. As William James said “This life is worth living, since it is what we make it.” So let us all use the Law of Attraction to deliberately make our life a masterpiece!

Priya Deelchand is into Life Coaching and Business Coaching and Founder of Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. She coaches and helps people worldwide in both English and French using Law of Attraction, EFT and other powerful techniques. If you want to live a happier and more fulfilled life, please visit us at

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